Agreed! But I'll admit that a lack of effort and listening skills are a turn-off. I had a guy who invited me for a walk in a -10 C (14F) winter weather after I explicitly told him that: 1) I love walks but not during winter: 2) it's super cold and I try to stay in as much as possible. Unfortunately, some people including certain men don't have the best social skills, and some also have zero dating skills despite being in their 30s and older.

I'm all for a walk and coffee but not when it's freezing! Lol. Sorry, #CanadaProblems