I liked your article, but disagree on the whole premise of the OF lady breaking up a marriage. It’s the cheating spouse who did that, not the OF girl. They are either a cheater or they’re not. It doesn’t matter who is the person they intend to cheat with, as it can be a coworker, a meat slicer at the grocery store or someone else. The fact that they intend to cheat is crucial, meaning they’re a cheater.

I also don’t think that refusing to share location is a red flag. When a man asks a woman to do that, we call it abuse and control. So how come when it’s the other way around, it’s acceptable?