Joanna Henderson
2 min readMay 28, 2024

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I mean, form a scientific standpoint, there might be some truth to the nature increasing a number of non-heterosexual women who will be born. You cannot become gay; you can either be one, or experiment, or pretend.

I’m a woman who chooses not to date unless I find a good man. I’m not interested in that topic 10% or 20% nonsense as I don’t care about height, muscles, money, expensive toys, etc. It’s all about personality. Sadly, humans are horrible in general, and our society was built on a premise that men need to do very little to find female partners, while women should be thankful that someone picked them. This has changed. Also, less and less people feel the need to have children as it’s not something they owe to the society, their country or a potential partner. We are all free to do what we want.

I’m not asexual or a lesbian, lol. I’m not sure why you made a conclusion about women being asexual and how is it connected with men. Women don’t need men to satisfy their sexual desires, and vice versa; we can do it ourselves. As a woman, I can attest to being self-sufficient is better than finding a man, because it’s simply a lot of work, a ton of energy, and can be dangerous too. Not to mention, I simply don’t want to sleep with a man who isn’t my significant other, neither am I into a hookup culture. All this doesn’t reduce my sexual desire; I just don’t want to satisfy it with random men. I’d rather do it myself.

I don’t think humanity is finished. If you’re talking about it being finished due to lack of reproduction, that’s not true as people can easily have kids on their own and adopt them. For some reason men aren’t very keen on that as most want to have kids but under the condition that a woman will do most of the work. Also, the planet is overpopulated as is, so it’s not like we are in need of more people, at least not in the US and Canada.

So, what’s the problem? There have always been people who prefer solitude and staying single. Right now we just have more of them. None of us is entitled to a spouse or partner, we all need to have certain personal qualities and skills to get them. Some are more lucky than others, although such luck usually fades out quickly. And as it fades out, those 80% of divorces initiated by women happen simply because men are too delulu to admit that their marriages are done and file the paperwork themselves.

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Joanna Henderson
Joanna Henderson

Written by Joanna Henderson

Canadian. Mental health activist. Banker and financier who drinks too much coffee. Pursuing happiness and sharing my thoughts with others.

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