I wish you wrote more about why you ended up in this situation though… Your family was upper middle-class, okay. You found a rich husband. But what about YOU? Didn’t you also have assets, a career, skills you used before getting married? Don’t you have a job? Or did you just go from financially stable parents to a rich guy without building a career? Didn’t you have a job to sustain your children in the event something like this goes wrong? Sorry, I’m just a bit lost here. I refuse to believe you found a guy simply to give you a rich worry-less lifestyle and to spend his money while he works, using children as a reason not to work. I’m sure you’re a smart and successful person on your own… Also, why did your marriage fall apart due to financial issues? Is there more to the story? Your husband losing his wealth is horrible, but it’s not like you left him because he became poor, right? Please tell us more.