It’s great you mastered the courage to divorce your husband. I wish you looked for a better partner though. Marrying a rich guy doesn’t mean marrying a wealthy guy. Someone who didn’t have the brains to avoid overextending themselves with investment properties and ensure he has enough of an emergency fund wasn’t a smart idea. It’s one thing to have money and invest it; it’s a completely different story to be SMART about money.
I wish you had a career before having kids… I’m sure it would have made your life easier and better. But! It seems like you have a career in writing now, don’t you? :) I think you’re doing well, or at least you have a potential of making it a career.