Men who think women want them for their money don't have anything else to offer.

Women who actually DO want men for their money don't have anything interesting to offer either. Those of us who are smart, educated and possess life skills, have our own money. We enjoy time with smart and nice people - including men - because we want to be surrounded by our equals, in particularly when it comes to life skills and intelligence.

I want to be with a financially secure guy because I am financially smart and secure myself. And I've always wanted an equal. When I encounter boys who think I agree to date them to get a $5-coffee, I feel like paying for THEIR coffee, laughing in their face and leaving. :)