No, hon, the point is that people need to MATCH. If two people who don't believe in marriage or/and don't want to get married meet - it's a match. If someone who wants to get married meets someone with the same views - also a match. Otherwise - it's a mismatch.

While people may want to exchange rings, it doesn't mean they want to be with their partner. The couple I talk about in this article both believes in marriage, yet the girls sees the guy as a future husband, but the guy doesn't. He constantly looks for excuses, even though they've been together for 9 years and they have a child. And he always agrees that "finding the one who I would want to marry" is the ultimate goal. This is what the article is about: breaking up with someone who doesn't see you in their future despite believing in marriage.