So very true! I never liked the idea of "the one". Sure, you might end up meeting the perfect and amazing man, who's like a prince. But the probability of that happening is 1%.
There are MANY options out there. And, ironically, the happiest people often end up with partners who are soooo different from what they imagined.
Just keep your options open and don't miss out of excellent individuals simply because you have an idea of a perfect man or woman in your head.