Straight men are equally shallow as straight women you're describing. The only difference is straight women act homophobic as they hear about a potential partner being bisexual, while straight men, some of which have porn addiction and are creeps, get excited thinking there's a chance for a threesome if the girl they met is bisexual.

The number one problem is the swiping one. I've learned many times that apps are a horrible way to date. But if you're mostly encountered shallow homophobes who got insecure about dating a bisexual man, and then told themselves they can just "shop" for a "better" (or more like easier) option; that's not my fault. At the very least you should consider changing the way you swipe. The best idea would probably be getting off the apps. Which, of course, is totally your choice. But what you're describing is a typical thing for apps in general, because humans are awful and shallow. Straight women complain about straight men being thirsty creeps, and straight men complain about straight women being shallow and picky.

Oh, and I'm not "one of the good ones". You've got to search for a pick me girl if you wanna hear an opinion like that.