This is a very nice, mature, kind and proper way of looking at things. Good job. I agree that we, as people, should feel like we deserve good things to happen to us. I mean, there are surely selfish, self-centered and flat out awful humans out there. But as for the decent people who are also mature and emotionally available, and also who care about others - yes, I believe they are deserving of partners and love in general.

Sounds like you got it right. I wish more people did.