This is an interesting perspective, it was great to read it.

I can say with certainty I’m more attracted to “boring average” guys than on huge muscular men on steroids. However, the #1 priority is confidence. If the guy has no confidence approaching me, or starting a conversation, or expressing his opinion - unfortunately, I wouldn’t be interested. But I don’t know if I’m a typical girl or not.

It’s amazing you’ve been saving money for your future wedding for the last 5 years! Very sweet and romantic.