This is so on point and so well-written. I'm happy to report that I'm a woman who walks away the moment I see at least a few red flags, and overall not focusing on men. I've been watching amazing women wasting their time, energy and youth over unworthy men my entire life, and I refuse to be one of them. I think it's not easy for good men to find a decent woman either, but at least we as women are taught to be nice, nurturing and mother-like since childhood, so I bet it's easier to find a good woman compared to finding a good man.