You wrote a great article. The part about women judging you stood out to me. I’m on a conservative end, and I’ve been judged by women for the opposite reason: once they hear how low my number is, they feel insecure and start acting bitchy. Obviously, not all women, but it happened to me many times. I don’t think I’m better than someone else who slept with more people - in fact, I don’t like comparing myself to others; nor do I say or do things to make them feel bad. But I’ve had pretty negative experiences when I barely said anything, and women went from 0 to 100 on a bitchy scale. That’s why I feel more comfortable sharing my intimate life with male friends than female friends.