You’re 100% correct. I’m all for finding good partners, creating families and living happy lives. However, I’m totally fine with not meeting a proper man. In fact, I feel like it’s almost better to have children on your own, because no matter how in love you are and how perfect your relationship seems; a lot of things can go south. I’d rather have kids on my own because I want them and rely solely on myself, than have children with a man, because a divorce is too high or a possibility. Disappointment is also very high on that list. So… I’m almost hoping I won’t meet a man and have kids with him, because it doesn’t seem like a good idea. Once they are grown up, then sure, maybe. But until then, I would much rather be single and a single mother by choice by having kids from a donor, than be with a subpar human. Moreover, I never centered my life around finding a man.